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Old Feb 22, 2023, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by *Beth* View Post


I'm sorry, Nammu. That sounds like a very sad dream. But I will say that in a strange way, I believe it's healthy, because your mind is processing the grief you're feeling. I hope that makes sense and doesn't sound insensitive.

I used to dream about my dad a lot, after he passed. I haven't dreamt of him in such a long time, but I wish I would.
Not insensitive at all. I believe the same thing. The dream was about letting go. Logically I know mum is better off now. Those last 6 months were hard for her as she couldn’t really do her word puzzles or read much because her eyes were bothering her. But emotionally it’s hard. At first it was like I was still waiting for her to come home, but I saw her everyday she was in the hospital and nursing home. Then I didn’t see her. So the reality settled slowly over me.

It was sad, but also a great comfort.
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Thanks for this!
*Beth*, Rosi700