OUCH!
((((((((((Vince)))))))))))))) Your friend needs a good solid kick. I'm sorry that he's being insensitive. Truthfully, you're not a sissy. People need to take time to grieve, and sometimes it takes longer than some people want - but that's the way it is. It doesn't mean you're a sissy or anything ridiculous like that. It means you have a heart, and lost someone you love very much.