I am not attempting to judge anyone, I was reaching out for a person that asked me for help and I am out of my element.

As for support, I WILL NOT support any destructive behavior in any form, the person sure, not the behavior. I will not encourage an alcoholic to take a drink, a bulemic to throw up, and SI to cut, a manic to continue unhealthy behaviors... you get the idea.

And if you see a comment such as do some research or go to a doctor to find out how many calories you need to LIVE as unsupportive, I am sorry you feel that way. I've been in chat when the competition for the fewest calories of the day have been going on.

The day I pissed you off in chat I was in PM with someone in chat that has been ill for a long time. She is trying to beat her disease and was trying to deal with the fact that she had consumed more calories that day than she had in a long time, meanwhile (and I truly cannot recall your contribution) in open chat was the: I had 95 calories today etc. Which is why I said I'd like to see you ladies support each other making healthy choices.