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Old Feb 22, 2023, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
Don’t think SD was asking why you do this to yourself to get you to blame yourself, but rather a serious question about why you returned to Dr T—he causes you so much anxiety and self-torture. And in that respect it doesn’t matter what the email was about.
yes - this in terms of the act of email in and of itself - not the contents. And not to blame yourself as if bad - I don't think of it as bad or good or blame - just that it seems to so much angst that could rather easily be avoided simply by not emailing. Around email it just seems so moth to flame
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