((((( Griffe )))))
Sounds like your friend needs a session out behind the wood shed, but I'm only a frog of little brain.
Be happy that the twins turn 6 months old today. Forget your "friend" with the sissy attitude. He obviously needs a course at "Ms.Froggy's Manner School."
The hurt and sadness will be around for awhile and although we can't take it away we all care about you.
Don't be so hard on yourself.
I care