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Originally Posted by Samicat
A good reminder. What floored me is how bad his physical condition is and how much you were willing to accommodate him, yet he cheated on you and was abusive. You definitely dodged a bullet. It sounded like he was not financially responsible either. You always had savings before you met him. Give it time and you will recover in every way.  |
I was forced to accommodate him. It wasn't by choice. I wasn't a doormat either. After he cheated, I kicked him out of the home, we separated for 6 months, and almost divorced. I took him back because I was in yet another down position in life and felt I needed him. That's where I feel I messed up. I should not have taken him back that time. But, I did and I went through it all again, only to be back in a position of wanting a divorce.
I will recover and will rebound in time...
