I care - I just do. I don't like people falsely judging me and pointing fingers at me when it's all him. It's the injustice of it all. The victim of abuse receives a total lack of justice, and it's absolutely infuriating when all others think he's SO GREAT, but only YOU know that he is NOT AT ALL and in fact, is quite abusive behind closed doors. If you've never been in an abusive long-term relationship or marriage, then you may never understand this feeling of injustice.