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Old Feb 25, 2023, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
He point blank told me that his friends are against me. He wanted to hurt me.

I hear what you both are saying. But it hurts - even what you're saying hurts me @unaluna.

I have been hurt enough. I have been abused. What you don't understand is the EFFECT that abuse has on a person. It beats you down.

I don't need criticisms and harsh statements right now. I am fragile as it is.
Of course it hurts!!! I don’t think it’s all easy breezy!
Just giving you advice re what actions to take. Not telling you what to feel. Divorce and breaks hurt! There’s no criticism.

But honestly I do not want you to continue on this path of focusing on some irrelevant bozos. He clearly told you his friends are against you to hurt you. So he once again succeeded!

Who cares about his stupid friends??? He continues hurting you and making you feel vulnerable, desperate and helpless and when you feel like this, then again he won! He likes when you feel this way!

Next time he says my friends don’t like you respond: “who the f… cares about your stupid a…friends and who they like or don’t like???” Block him.

His friends live in your head rent free. Evict these bozos.
Thanks for this!
ArtleyWilkins, Have Hope, unaluna