Thank you.

This forum is my way of detaching.

I don't want to slander her to anyone, and coming on here is my 10,000 ft view.

When I post here it's because I became emotionally overwhelmed and I'm thinking through it without talkjng to anyone we know.

I've maxed out my insurance so no more counselling for me.

She's pushing forward with lawyers and threats, so a lot of time and money is going to start going there.

My goal is to post increasingly less frequently and become more self contained.