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Feb 26, 2023, 06:39 PM
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@Parva I am sorry you have a relationship that is in a precarious position. That sounds like you are "walking on eggshells" trying to be supportive and not getting any favorable response.
My experience with a partner suffering mental health challenges has shown me that if they did not want treatment or they were not compelled by reason of being a threat to themselves, then there was little I could do. I actually found that periods where they were hospitalized were the least stressful times in recent times. I got to get my life and support system on solid ground.
If I would give any advice, it would be to be supportive and non reactive. Anger just drives someone away when they are already so hurting.
But my strongest advice is to get a therapist for you and set up a supportive routine of exercise, healthy food, and practicing mindfulness to learn emotion management. It will make dealing with your partner easier but will also make your own life seem more solid and content.
If you want you may also find posting in Relationships supportive.
@CANDC
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