Well Sian, that could be. I felt very good with my ex for a while... but then my stuff started to creep back in and create problems. I'm really not sure what to say at this point. I wanted my ex to keep trying. Begged her to stick it out for about a year and a half. But finally it was over. I'm not in your ex's head so I really can't say why she feels the way she does. All I can do is lend an ear. Could you give her a day or 2 and then ask her to talk? Maybe if you went in for therapy to try and get well she might come around. It's worth a try. Best wishes.

Ryan