Oh Kit, I'm sorry her reply was so tinged with emotional manipulation. As others here have said, it would have been better if she'd just said she understood, wished you well and was a no hard feelings kind of reply.

This is the kind of response that would cause me to have great difficulty in successfully walking away from a T, no matter how much I knew it was the right thing to do. So I applaud your bravery in seeing it through, even though she has made you feel like crap. You deserved better than that.

Focus on the thought that your new T will be more experienced and reliable, and hold better boundaries than ex-T.

It gets very messy when we start to get emotionally involved in our Ts lives and only ends badly for the client.

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