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gamommy said:I have found that the only time I feel "good" about myself and my life is when I have -0- contact with my family. But, my mother makes me feel guilty -- she will eventually call after one of these "episodes" with my dad --- say how he's sooooooooo depressed and feels so bad.

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It sounds to me as though the less contact you have with them for now, the better. Maybe you could limit it to telephone only for the time being, until you decide otherwise.