I don’t have much to add past the really insightful and useful replies you’ve had. But if this is the response, wow, you’ve truly made the right call. So much focus on her feelings, and trying to prove her worth as a therapist when clearly you were not getting that from her. Some things can be worked on, but this level of personal emotional speak is really a bit much… I would be so irritated by this response. It’s like you can have a soulful connection that is healthy and caring. It doesn’t need to focus so much on her feelings. Someone who cares so much wouldn’t focus their last interaction on making you second guess and feel like it’s the only time you’ll receive that level of care in a therapeutic relationship… It feels almost manipulative to me.