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Feb 28, 2023, 05:26 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Hi Kit, I'm kinda with Una on this. I don't believe ex-t was being intentionally emotionally manipulative. She sounds like a sensitive person, and a caring person. Someone who would be lovely to have for a friend. Yet, her boundaries truly are odd...she seems to me to be a needy person. It's quite possible that she unconsciously wants to (and sometimes does) get her own unhealed emotional needs met by (formerly) you and perhaps other sensitive, caretaking clients. I truly understand the "ouches" - I feel them, too, from her words. Despite what she says, however, she conveys a feeling of needing enmeshment. Poor lady...I have this feeling of wanting to tell her that she is a good soul, but to please, please get some therapy. 
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