I am sorry for everyone here suffering.
but i believe self punishment is like giving yourself venom hoping it will heal you and your feelings linked to the past.
maybe we should make more kind gestures towards others and ourselves, we have suffered enough. you cant change the past but you can change someone else's future with even a kind smile.
it will never make up for the wrong in the past but it does more good that poisoning ourselves each and every day....
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* Death ends a life, Not a Relationship - Mitch Albom
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