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Originally Posted by Buffy01
 I began validating myself :sadhug whenever someone said something  that is meant to hurt my feelings :hug. That was something  no one ever  did for me growing up |
I didn’t get that either.
My parents are long gone now so don’t know how much harm was done to me by that but they’d deny it anyway. Even as an adult I crave validation.
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