Love is love and you shouldn't be ashamed..i learned that.. I nevered really liked boys/men...but pushed myself to date them because i didnt want to be diffrent...but after a few dates... i met this girl that changed my life...not so much her..but being with her...It made me realize that i need to be who i am in order to be happy....i do not regret any thing...it has been hard but now i am with this lovely young women that i love beyond any thing...You will find the right person..and you will know when you do..wether it be a man or a women..Do not let others label you..it isnt about being gay or bi or any thing else it is about being in love...