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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
When you are married to someone who has addiction problems it’s always going to revolve around their disease/addiction and all their moods that go along with the affects of addiction.
Addicts are manipulative gaslighters always tending on playing the victim.
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yeah he gaslights and plays the victim often. aggressively so.
if you do something "bad" to him, he'll get you back threefold.
he got a job here and plans to move back. for the job, not family.
i told him child doesnt want to see him and not to come to the house unless invited. he said thats fine and he'll be there when child is ready
i dont think its about child being ready, child isnt going to magically be ready.
He said he doesnt have to prove anything to me.
he called me and child "you people"
i get it. he was rejected and betrayed and then ignored. he'll just respectfully wait nicely until child comes to him. what a saint!
he probably just doesnt want to be bothered with any of it, as usual.