I agree with some of the others. Please consider blocking her. She is acting the part of an abuser and "turning you over to God" is her once again stating that if she can't help you, noone can. That is completely out of line and frankly narcissistic (not saying she is a narc, but this is still a very narcissistic thing to say). I understand that you want to protect her, and I understand that all of us bashing her may be very hard for you, and I want to apologize for joining in with more of the same, but be sure that this is all about her actions, and not at all about yours. Your love for her is beautiful, and your response to her was the kindest thing.

It is her actions that is in the wrong here, not on any level is any of this your fault. I hope you know that.