I generally am a little shy in responding but Kit, I wanted to gently tell you that she is very wrong that "no one else will carry you in their heart daily". While I don't know her intentions and I don't want to bash her for your sake, this just isn't true and something with a very disordered view would say. You deserve GOOD care with GOOD boundaries. You can definitely find that.

Wishing you much peace.

Biz