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Old Mar 05, 2023, 07:43 AM
Downtroddenred Downtroddenred is offline
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Member Since: Feb 2023
Location: NY
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I understand how you feel. You got to take care of your own family and you do need this person to go but you are a kind hearted person and it’s not that simple for you. Somebody cold hearted wouldn’t have an issue with the situation and be like “yup not your problem”. But it’s not you. You understandably lost your sleep over it.

If she called your local state government, then maybe they can help her to find a place sooner. Her threats are pointless. She needs to put energy into finding low income housing. Sadly she might have to stay in a shelter until place opens up… in fact sometimes it would expedite finding a place. I wonder if it’s an option.
Unfortunately, we live in such a rural area that there is no shelters. When it’s extremely cold our local churches open up for the homeless. I absolutely agree she should be focused on finding a place. I don’t know how these things work- I don’t know if being moved to the top of the list because you’re in the emergency situation is an option. I’ve been avoiding her at all costs, which is tricky because our front doors are side-by-side. I feel like a coward as I hide by my door to listen and see if she’s getting ready to go out. I’m going to put my big girl panties on and check in with her later on in the week and see how things are going.
Hugs from:
Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
*Beth*