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Old Mar 05, 2023, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul View Post
Someone baited me into a circular conversation. I fell for the bait and raided the merrygoround for ever.I thought I healed enough,and learned enough to recognize the patterns and am strong enough to erect clear boundaries. I can't believe I fell in to the word salad trap.I am exhausted and feel defeated. Urgh.
One day of weakness doesn't mean tomorrow won't be better. I have learned to listen and not react. Some people just don't listen in a way that helps. They are unable. With some people I daydream like crazy about things that are lovely. I have learned to accept but not change. I have learned to put more limits on what I give and not feel guilty about my decisions. I examine my own motives but believe someday we will all be judged by the One who truly knows our hearts (and our hearts can be quite deceptive that is why we must continually evaluate ourselves from my POV).
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