Narcs know that we adore the projected image of them.They successfully create an illusion of themselves for us to see and admire.Once the awareness sets in we see them for what they really are,really.Until yesterday I greyrocked successfully. Didn't react to anything.He started him game on by acting all stupid and ignorant about a problem.I should have kept quiet and should have listened.I immediately wore the shoes of a fixer and rescuer and tried to educate him.He acted more and more stupid making me talk more and more.Him throwing in more words,pulling me in into useless,meaningless word salad.Until I saw the smirk developing, the predatory glow in the eyes,the gotcha non verbal facial language, I didnot realize it was staged for fun.Narc is really bored,and I unwittingly entertained him.I think I got overconfident about my awareness.