Thread: End of an Era
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Old Mar 06, 2023, 06:18 AM
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No matter the reason you end up with your spouse, it is a journey that hopefully gets to a stable a place. For me, I have "struggled" with conditions that have always triggered strong, unyielding reactions from my "spouse" who uses everything in her arsenal. She seeks a victim status and I try to find her source of true issue as I think I might be targeting her hidden issues but she is keeps engaging and refusing to reveal like her point was to marry a person who she felt was broken and went in to it with premeditated outcome of divorce.

My life would be better, not worse, without a doubt considering my life was controlled by outside forces anyway. I know that is her team's rock of a position. Personally, I am human and might tend to differ simply from my love for a reason associated with power however I would take the original idea of the losers and say I didn't adequately resist as going in to it I had a partial to full offensive concept that did not reveal it did not believe she would accept the idea that it was not a holy mission and that I intended to shed this life's sucker reject positions.

So, having said that. I know wonder how I can address her issues without making it about the café standards. How easy is it to get divorced? I hate having it standing in my view. How does resist the resistor without resistance work? She models herself with non-emotional super standards which I don't get.
I am still thinking this has been the conclusion step for the play's close to end.
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