Open Eyes,you are right.In so many environments narcissism is encouraged and conformed. No body calls out for the fear of repercussions. I get angry at the fact that,not only normal people have to face the negative effects of these toxic behaviours,we need to strive not to catch up the fleas, the disease itself so to speak.Greyrocking,stonewalling, not reacting...all these functions that I need to stick to when facing the narc are against the core of what I am.If you know what I mean.On top of that I need to watch myself after the abuse happens and be self constraint, not to spill over my agony onto some innocent person. I get angry that life gets harder for normal people like us..Just yesterday I almost raised my voice on a person who has nothing to do with my suffering. And then I told myself...Whoa, stop,stop.whatcha doing?Urgh......sigh.....