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Old Mar 06, 2023, 12:29 PM
JaneTennison1 JaneTennison1 is offline
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Everything a T does should be in line with helping you. Ex T is being unprofessional, narcissistic and manipulative by saying no one will care like she does. I mean, I hope she's right because if this is "care" then who needs it? This is twisted and wrong. New T sounds like her contact is about helping you and that is fantastic.

You are trying so hard, with everything you have , to stay alive and healthy and everything that does not serve that goal is merely noise to be drowned out.

You could try blocking ex T as a trial to see how you feel. Try for 24 hours then 48 and just see if at the end of the trial period you feel better or worse for having done it.

I blocked a toxic person thinking I would unblock them in a week but the peace I felt meant I never unblocked them.
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