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Originally Posted by Bill3
The finalizing of your divorce won't stop him from trying to pressure, manipulate, upset, hurt, and argue with you.
He will keep finding reasons to try to get at you, for as long as you give him the chance.
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Yes official divorce does not stop nonsense at all.
The only way to stop nonsense is to stop meeting and talking. When run into each in public, it’s perfectly fine to greet each other politely and quickly move on. Don’t equate civility and politeness with having to talk and meet all the time. You can remain amicable and civil and not engage in any of these endless emailing, texting, calling, arguing and meeting.
He loves to argue. He’ll find the reason to keep doing it after divorce too. It doesn’t really matter when the divorce is final. You aren’t together so that’s good enough reason to cut him off.