i'm so sorry that you feel this way...what we were doing, or attempting to do...is to alert our fellow site members that sometimes everyones motives aren't to help and support. our motives are not to hurt...as you see...names aren't used...but if you don't believe me....you can rest assurred that i am one of many victims....i'm so sorry because i enjoy your posts and insights...and our intentions were honorable...sorry