My husband dropped off flowers the other day, while I was out. He left them at my door. And now he's trying to convince me to get together again before our court date on Tues. I know I know... you're going to tell me to block him & stop talking to him. He doesn't know anything about me and this other guy... and I will not be telling him anything. I will block him again when it comes to that point again.

He also gave me $250 last night, on his own initiative. I gave it back to him this morning, realizing that IF I keep accepting money from him, I will be beholden to him and will be obligated to keep the lines of communication open. It gives him rights and access to me that I don't want.

As it is, the other night he was arguing that if I don't want to get back together with him, that I shouldn't take money from him. He was scolding me, then took it all back when I pointed out he was scolding me. So, I just won't take any money then.

Court date is right around the corner.