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Old Mar 11, 2023, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Starlingflock View Post
i don't know what kind of person he is. my struggle is thinking he needs help, and thinking i'm supposed to help him.
Remember, it's not your job to save or help him. He has to help himself. His life is 100% his responsibility - especially now that you've separated and will divorce. You're not obligated to him, yet he is obligated to pay you child support.
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Thanks for this!
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