Dear T, it was hard having to do our session on Zoom because of the stupid snow. I was ready to drive an hour in the snow and ice for you but as you said it was just too bad and thanks for caring about my safety. It was really hard though that I missed out on our hug at the end. The hugs for me signify that no matter what I talked about things are ok. My love language is strongly physical and it’s hard when I don’t get that very small amount of physical contact from you that you actually allow. I want to ask you if it’s ok if I come to yours just for a hug sometime between now and next session. Just a hug and then I’ll go. I don’t want to wait a few weeks for another hug it hurts. But I don’t want you to reject me and say no because of your boundaries. It’s also embarrassing how much your hugs mean to me that I’m willing to drive an hour to you and an hour home just to get a 30-second-or-so hug from you. But I can’t help it’s how I feel.
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