Oh, I'm sorry you've been bounced around to so many different doctors and therapists, it sounds like no one took the time to get you know you. that is not only frustrating, infuriating, but heartbreaking.
I don't have a family doc or a pdoc right now and am getting bounced around by walk-in clinics which doesn't make me feel safe.
How do you feel about the newer Asperger's diagnosis? Does it seem to fit?
Has anyone ever gone through the DSM Manual with you to get YOUR feedback as to what your diagnosis could be?
Hope things get better for you...