I'm in my upper 20s now.

I don't know... Honestly, I just don't think I have much interest in pursuing sexual relationships. I admit, part of it is I kind of feel like I don't fully trust myself to advocate for my own boundaries in a healthy way if I did (I feel like I'd let myself be pushed into things I'm uncomfortable with) - but I also just don't tend to find people all that attractive in general. I'd say my libido is pretty low and I'd describe myself as ace, more or less, but with a kink/one interest. So I'm not sure it's that worthwhile of an avenue to pursue.


I think my concern is more that I've never seen anyone else who seems to have a similar issue, and it bothers me. I do a lot of self analysis, and on this subject I just feel like... I don't get it. I can't be the only person in the world like this can I? But it seems that way. I can't find anyone else who is similar or an explanation for it.

Of course, not finding anything attractive is not that big a surprise. But only having one persistent thing I can find compelling in sexual art is weird, for me.