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Mar 12, 2023, 06:05 PM
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@smile1217 welcome to MSF. I am sorry that you feel so upset by what he says. He does not sound at all reasonable or emotionally stable. I think if you take what he says as a description more of his state of mind rather than yours, it might be more accurate.
Whenever I hear anything like his line of reasoning, it sounds like gaslighting, trying to make a person feel unsure of themselves and clinging to this person that says they are a friend but seems to be undermining your mental well being by extreme manipulation.
I hear how it hurts but depending on someone like this who is unstable and projecting their qualities onto others could be very unsatisfying and difficult.
Hope you find an inner strength so you do not lean on people outside to validate your own well being. @CANDC
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