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Old Mar 12, 2023, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted by smile1217 View Post
yeah he’s been in AA for 2 months now. However, during the times he “hasn’t recalled” things he’s said, he was t drinking because of the divorce and custody process. He was getting pee tests done twice a week on his own volition to show the court he was sober. I will say he smokes a lot of weed, but he has his medical marijuana card.
Smoking a lot of weed …..oh boy. This dude is high as a kite. Of course he doesn’t know what the heck he’s doing! He is stoned!

Pee test is for drugs. Not alcohol.

What are his redeeming qualities? He sounds like an awful candidate for dating. Like walking red flag.

I commend him for going to AA. But two months is nothing. Too early to say if there’s any improvement. Plus if he goes to AA but then goes home and gets high, he’s not sober. Even if he was not intoxicated when talking nonsense, years of substance abuse would mess him and his cognitive abilities up.

Again bad news. Be done with him