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Old Mar 12, 2023, 07:33 PM
smile1217 smile1217 is offline
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Smoking a lot of weed …..oh boy. This dude is high as a kite. Of course he doesn’t know what the heck he’s doing! He is stoned!

Pee test is for drugs. Not alcohol.

What are his redeeming qualities? He sounds like an awful candidate for dating. Like walking red flag.

I commend him for going to AA. But two months is nothing. Too early to say if there’s any improvement. Plus if he goes to AA but then goes home and gets high, he’s not sober. Even if he was not intoxicated when talking nonsense, years of substance abuse would mess him and his cognitive abilities up.

Again bad news. Be done with him

yep he used to be addicted to xanax in college actually & went to rehab for two months, if you want to call it rehab, his parents just sent him to vietnam lol. and somehow he still is prescribed xanax.

I told him the other week I was concerned about how seriously he’s taking AA because he’s missed a meeting to get a tattoo. Also in AA I’m fairly certain they advise not pursuing any dating or romantic relationships for the first year & he obviously isn’t heeding that advice since he’s on hinge dating people. Also when I was at his house
a month ago he said “I’m not an alcoholic because alcoholics see a drink and have to have it. I just can’t stop drinking when I start”

He has been sweet & caring to me but I guess that was all a facade…