You do sound as you would describe yourself as ace.


I just googled "asexual people" and there is a lot of information, including Wikipedia, YouTube and the Trevor Project.

But I guess you are looking for someone who's an ace with the same kink as you... That's why I thought of the BD SM world... although often to experience your kink you'd have to give something back and that sounds like it would be a violation to you. So you have to be careful.


There ought to be more people in the world with the same kind of kink, given the number of people there are on the planet.


Maybe keep looking??

I know someone who is asexual, but I sense it would be a violation for me to ask him about it, so I won't.

Hopefully, you will be able to connect with someone who shares your kink.