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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
His wife most likely left him because of his substance abuse problems.
This guy is just going to be a problem for you. You can’t believe anything he tells you and his dysfunction will only make you feel crazy.
AA for two months? He is not committed and one thing strongly advised in the AA program is to not get into new relationships.
Please end this relationship, it’s only going to be very unhealthy for you.
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yes he told me last year when she filed that she claimed he was an “uninvolved alcoholic father” and “emotionally abusive” of course he swore up & down this was all untrue & that she was narcissistic, and the problem because when he got home from work nothing was done, etc.
his dysfunction has already driven me crazy I think lol, I’ve been “friends” with him for about 11 months so I’ve listened & witnessed a lot of it. I hate the way things ended for us but I also realize me being in his life right now doesn’t benefit either of us, especially him because he needs to prioritize himself & healing…which I guess he still isn’t regardless since he’s dating a new girl