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Old Mar 13, 2023, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted by smile1217 View Post
thank you. I guess I’m just confused why I’m so…doubtful & second guessing myself of is he really the problem or was I..
Abusers deliberately try to make you think that you are the problem instead of them. This is why they accuse YOU of what THEY themselves are guilty of, and this is why they project all their own problems onto you.
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