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Old Mar 13, 2023, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by smile1217 View Post
but I am feeling like the abuser right now by the times I’ve had emotional outbursts towards him & said hurtful things to him…
That’s how abusers operate. They mistreat you but when you react, it’s your fault. It’s also typical to feel unstable in a relationship with an addict. They keep you off balance. Stop blaming yourself