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Originally Posted by Have Hope
That's called reactive abuse. You reduce yourself to their level because no other communication method or approach has worked. And yes, they can turn it around on you, accusing you of being the abuser, when in fact, they are the abuser. Don't feel awful about this... it's sooo common and very natural to react to abuse in these ways!
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is it common even if you aren’t being abused in that exact moment that you have blow ups?