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Old Mar 13, 2023, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted by smile1217 View Post
is it normal common to react though even if you aren’t being abused necessarily at that exact moment you blow up?
It builds up in your system. You aren’t satisfied in this relationship. It’s not a healthy one. So it doesn’t matter if it’s that moment or another

Work with your therapist on managing BPD symptoms. But this guy isn’t a good partner regardless if you have BPD or not.