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thank you for that I don’t know much about AA at all but I can see he isn’t truly focusing on himself like he should be…or he is focusing on himself but just in the wrong way. when I told him this he basically said I can’t give him my opinion, but GUC is something new because we’ve always given our thoughts to each other.
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You're welcome. I don't know what GUC is but other than that, if I was offering my opinion to someone in the spirit of goodwill and helpfulness, and they turned around said 'you can't give me your opinion' (above quote), for me, that would practically end any chance of me wanting to develop the relationship further. I am a sensitive person though.
I'm not sure about the criteria of how to label certain things as 'abuse' or not, but I know what's acceptable to me and what isn't and, respectfully, if that's how he talks to you then more trouble will be waiting for you down the track. You'll likely end up quite depressed. Sorry. 🙏