Once someone said to me ,I heard you took care of your sisters like a mother would.My mom jumped right in.Oh,well she raised the youngest alright.But was not perfect with the other one(The golden child),she neglected the other sibling. I asked how did I neglect the other sibling,mom?Her reply was your care was not as good as the care you provided for the youngest.Now how old was I when I couldn't provide good enough care for the golden child??FIVE YEARS OLD.A five year old couldn't provide quality childcare for her sibling, an adult is whining about that. Wow.