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Old Mar 14, 2023, 05:10 PM
*Beth* *Beth* is offline
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Originally Posted by Rosi700 View Post
My experience is that it is difficult for parents to change. It is we who have to change how we relate to them. With time and praxis it goes well, but sometimes it pups up again as a sad bag from deep, deep within until one is able to continue with one's daily life and focus on something else.

Parents can change if they are willing to do the work. My mother was not willing, but I'm a parent (to now-grown children) and was in therapy by the time I had children. Through my work in therapy I broke major cycles of abuse.
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Last edited by *Beth*; Mar 14, 2023 at 07:24 PM.
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