Oh okay, yes I understand @smile1217.

My gosh, he has a long way to go in the way he talks to you (or probably to anyone else for that matter.) Very abusive and hurtful. Emotional abuse, yes. I'm sorry you've had to endure that with him.🙏 He has a lot of problems obviously, and there's the 24/7 drugs and addiction issues. It all points to someone who is lost, and any kind of relationship with him will be very challenging, in my view.

Of course, the final decision will fall upon you in this area. Choose wisely, friend.🙏