Did I enable him into doing all of that?

I remember when I was seeing him, he would tell me about stuff he'd seen (I never knew what sites he was on) online, stuff like watching two adults having sex getting filmed and knowing they was getting filmed, from what I understood both adults were happy with doing sex and getting filmed (I never saw any of that stuff, he never showed me cause I drew the line at watching stuff like that)

but by not trying to stop him from watching stuff like that, was I enabling him back in 2010/2011?

I'm doubting myself now cause at the time I thought maybe that was okay cause both was adults, both wanted the sex and both knew they was getting filmed (from what he told me)

idk details about it though cause for one thing i dont remember everything, 2012 messed my memory up and made me mentally unwell and even now my memory is screwy

maybe this information will get me (understandably) thrown out from the forum and told never to come back

idk maybe i remote controlled him into doing everything