So sorry to hear that ex is being a jerk. Wow, I can't believe the leases are so strict in the US. If you break a lease here you just have to pay a penalty but you certainly don't have to find another tenant or pay the (I assume) full term of the lease. You might want to verify your legal obligations -- what if you had to move due to illness or work requirements?


I'm sorry you are feeling pressured. The lease thing doesn't have to be a pressure cooker. I would tend to just sign the lease as the likelihood seems high that you will get another job. And the loan from your mom gives you time. I've had poor luck with roommates so I would get several references if you go that route.

This situation will resolve itself. This will pass. I personally think that moving with your mom and giving up your cat (even temporarily) would be a mistake. Pets are important to our mental health. I couldn't be away from my fur babies.


If you haven't done so already though, you may wish to double check that your mom's residence would not allow a cat under any circumstances, even temporarily. Because where I live said "1 pet only" and yet they accepted our second cat after confirming they are indoor only. I had to write the strata for permission. Another apartment I lived in that was strictly "no pets" (rental building) allowed us to take my brother-in-law's bird for several weeks. So exceptions do get made. Otherwise it's probably best to stay where you are and not add the stress of moving to the stress you are under.

I believe in you and that you will find work soon. I'm very glad your mom agreed to help so you don't have to use the bank loan.