I told you my grandparents were good people. My maternal grandmother visited us whenever she could.Farming and fruit orchard maintenance is very time consuming. But she visited after harvesting and fruit picking season was over.She came with produce and I always waited for her.She liked me and I used to hang around with her,since no body cared to talk to me in general. We chatted,she told me stories. But her daughter came first.I remember once my mom was trying to hit me with a pan.I held her hand tight and wouldn't let her.My mom started yelling..let go off of my hand...let go of.....But I wouldn't because I know she would beat me black and blue.My granny comes in and says oh,my you will break my daughter's hand.You ,angry little brat.She started rebuking me,got angry at me and hurled hateful derogatories.I felt so lonely at that moment. Granny proceeded to coddle her daughter,cooing for her.And rest of her visit she gave me silent treatment. It felt horrible that granny sided with her daughter even if she knew I was abused.